Benefits of failure
Why we fail : Life is difficult and complicated. It is beyond anybody’s total control. There are no secrets for success. Similarly, there are no secrets for failure too. Even after putting hard work, we may face failure. We need not bother about gossips and criticism. People may be waiting for a chance to see our reaction at the time of failure. We should not give them a chance. We should accept failure very gently. The reason for failure may or may not be obvious but we have to accept failure. We have to find out the reason for failure. Then we have to think and act wisely to reduce the loss. We should feel happy that we get an opportunity to try a new approach. With strong willpower and discipline, we have to manage the situation. If we never fail, it is difficult to really understand how we need to grow and improve ourselves.
Benefits of failure : You may wonder whether there will be any benefit due to failure. You need not doubt. There are some benefits that we gain due to failure in our attempts. The failure is a learning experience. Nobody teaches us how to fail and we ourselves learn it by experience. The failure may cause depression of mind, insecurity and loss of self-esteem. We learn by mistakes. The failure teaches us a good lesson. We clearly understand what not to do. We can make up our mind not to repeat the same mistakes. We gain more confidence for future success, by reducing the risk of future failure. We will be very cautious in future.
Failure teaches a good lesson : We won’t hear the bad advice of others and we will act on our own. We will take defensive step only to save us. We will thoroughly analyze the details, plans, options, timing, assistance and aim with knowledge and we will have a clear vision of things to be done in future. We will identify our enemy and take defensive measures to protect us from him. We will shred our ego and try to prove ourselves by doing any work for getting success. We will try all the possibilities to get success at any cost. The failure brings out our hidden talents. We should have patience to hear advice and criticism after shaking hand with a failure. We will become more humble and polite. We should not expect fame , glory or money immediately a failure. We should allow others to help us by lowering ourselves. Others may get a satisfaction due to this act. We will know about others at this time.
How to survive after facing a failure : We have to wait with a smiling face to hear the comments of others. They may criticize our inability and exhibit all the possibilities for our failure. We have to think by ourselves and decide the exact reason for failure. We have to determine what to do next. We may think well whether to continue our efforts in the same path or try a new thing. Then go ahead confidently with new thoughts and new energy to avoid failure and make a grand success.
Failure is inevitable : All the human beings might have faced failure at least once in their life. We need not feel ashamed to face a failure. It is impossible to live without failing at something. If we live very cautiously, without taking any risk, there is no thrill in life. We have to try again and again until we get success. The failures are the stepping stones for success.